Wednesday, January 2, 2008

Friendship

What is friendship? Friendship is operative and supportive behavior between two or more humans. In side relationship it can involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection. Friends will welcome each other's and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of unselfishness. Their experience will usually be similar and may come together, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship.

A friend is someone who may often demonstrate give in return and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them. Communication and interaction skills learned with friends spill over into every other relationship in life. Those who have no friends also tend to have a diminished capacity for sustaining marriages, work and neighborhood relationships.

So, how to find a friends in your life? First of all you must get outside for your comfort life zone. Ignore your feeling of inhibition. Try to find a new people to meet and talk to them, get to know them. Go to a new place like gym, cafĂ© or find new restaurant. It doesn’t matter what you do as long as you are around new people, and you are trying something new and adventurous. It is easier to meet a new friend in that place and try to build your friendship with them. Start to talk to someone, try to imagine what their life is like, and imagine how they must see the world. Stop worrying and find some new friends.

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